6 Easy Ways to Ask A Woman Out And Get a Yes
Everyone desires to love,to be loved and to be in love. There is always a place for love .Love is the dream of all of us in life.
In as much as everyone want love, sadly, not everyone would have the grace to be in that happiness. More so, not everyone will get their so desired love.
However, sometimes we are bound to leave that dream of love behind because of rejection.
Approaching a woman you’re interested in or like for a relationship can be cool and at the same time scary. It can feel scary to ask out someone that you like. It’s natural.
Many of us guys have been there in one way or the other. Most guys can’t muster up the courage to work up to a lady and ask her out, maybe because they are shy or fear of rejection.
However, whatever reason best known to us, in this blog post we would be outlining how you can ask a girl out and get a yes.
Without much ado, below are some of the way to ask a girl out and get a yes.
READ ALSO: How A Girl Can Ask A Guy Out Or Woo Him.
1. Attraction Phase.
One of the vital phase in asking a girl out and accepting you is the attraction phase. I mean in as much as you have got the lines and all things working together, you have got to make sure that you are well attracted to her.
Remember, two can’t work together except they agree. In other words, if you are only attracted to her and she’s not attracted to you at the moment or at all, then there is a problem.
It is now left for you to work on yourself. At the same time let things flow or progress naturally. It’s a process do not try to force anything. We can only manifest change with a firm degree of consistency.
The attraction phase is vital for this. It can work if you truly believe that you can attain your desire and then work on yourself.
In as much as we don’t know what goes through the mind of girls, if a girl sees you and you’re looking unkempt, dirty and messy, she’s already made up her mind even before you ask her out.
Girls like guys who are hygenic and not looking unkempt. Looking good is really a good business. Grooming can make or break your attractiveness:
According to: Jeremy Nicholson M.S.W., Ph.D. in Psychology
““Take some time to care for yourself. Shower, style your hair, and shave or trim where you need to. Be clean, neat, and smell good too. Grooming alone can make (or break) your attractiveness – and all it takes is a bit of time, effort, and a toothbrush!”
3 .Different Girl, Different Approach.
It’s insanity to be doing same thing and expect different results. So, you have to be careful here because what works for A might not work for B. Listen to what she like. Not trying to impress her that’s how you impress a girl.
Be open, honest and truthful. Don’t be wanting to get in there pants they hate that.
4. Be Confident.
Talent is never enough, you have to put in efforts , practice, determination and every necessary factors to actualize your talents well.
The truth is that appearance isn’t enough if you want to win a girls’ heart. Other essential factors that could power up your bidding and facilitate it should be put into perspective.
Most guys are well documented to be rejected immediately without a second thought before they open their mouth to utter a word. This is because they lack confidence. Their appearance doesn’t command an iota of confidence. For this, you have to be confident.
You will have to put your best foot forward in this. Whichever means or medium you intend using to ask her out (either on phone, one on one or on a date) you have to make sure that you are not anxious.
Be confident enough to saddle through, don’t be jumpy or allow your vocal pitch go up several octave. Girls appreciate guys that are bold and confident enough to break the ice.
Therefore ,you must not be a soldier who break his ranks. Women are attracted to men who are confident in theirself. Be comfortable and don’t appear nervous in your own skin. Know this.
Know that, you can’t fake confidence into existence, you build it up. So build up your confidence.
6. Discard Being The Nice Guy.
For some reasons, girls tend not to fancy the so called “nice guys”. There is a saying that says, if you want to lose a woman just be nice to her. Now the big question is do women really love bad guys?
Girls like guys who understands their emotions and their hints not just overly nice without paying attention to this.
A woman wants to feel special. You have to establish trust and comfort to turn her attraction switch on. Some guys are culpable of this, thinking they are doing the right thing until they are being friendzoned.
Being emotionally intelligent is your ability to understand and manage both your emotion and the emotion of the person you are relating with.
Some girls feel nice guys don’t clarify their intent. This is where you have to be intentional and direct. Understand the dynamics of women and how to interact with them.
Most girls don’t feel strong and independent, so they might want someone that has this ,that will listen to them so being nice is not enough.
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